Our expert says:
There's no excuse for this guy to be so darn lazy. Apart from looking for work ( which is in itself hard work ) he ought to be working hard round your home, cooking, cleaning, doing the shopping, whatever needs doing. he needs to be told that the old job descriptions no longer apply, and while he says, and his stay will NOT be indefinite, he must pay for his keep at least by work in the home and work in job-seeking.
I fully agree with Jelly and Zee. Go on strike. No washing for him ( ever ) and no cooking or cleaning until he does his share. And if he isn't yet earning enough to get his own place, he needs to convince you that he is putting aside most if not all of his earnings ( he's not paying rent or for food, I gather ) in a savings account so that he CAN soon afford his own place or one he could share with a co-worker. Do NOT clean up for him or pick up after him. And if he has the cheek to complain, just calmly point out that you are not his servant. And immediately stop making his lunch, you're not his mom.
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