Our expert says:
As the title of the Tom Wolfe novel said : "You Can't Go Home Again", and was it an old Roman proverb about how you ncan't step in the same river twice ? Because home, and the river, keep changing, as do you. You absolutely cannot again feel as you "felt about him in the beginning" --- neither of you are the same people as you were then, and so much has happened. Similarly, why argue about what MIGHt have been ? It WASN'T ! Talk abouit what might still be, but you cannot change the past. And you could disagree completely and both be right, because you were standing in different places, and got different vierws of what was going on.
If you must insist that he's "YOURS", why did you separate ? You both sound scared of not finding someone else, so cling to each other rather than face the possibility of nothing --- yet of course you're both giving up many chances of something better.
Hypnotherapy is too often quackery, and is not used, by any competent professional, to make you forget things that have happened to you --- neither is brain surgery.
See a counsellor and work out a different approach to your mutually self-defeating set of bad habits
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