Our expert says:
Its never easy, and counselling genuinely can help you in most cases. It sounds as though what failed was joint counselling and I wonder whether this may have been sabotaged by her, as if one participant does not sincerely want it to work, it cannot do so.
Why did she form such a firm opinion that you cheated on her ? Especialy as you say there wan't any basis for this in reality. Giving her anything she asks for is not being a good husband. You cannot make a marriage succeed all on your own, and cannot buy a happy ending. Look after yourself. If she is not prepared to allow this marriage to work, you may have to cut your losses, accept a divorce, take time to heal, and start again cautiously
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