Our expert says:
It sounds as though she has been deeply unwise. You might meet someone on mixit, or on the web, but only when you meet them in person and really get to know them, can you possibly know whether you are comptible let alone in love. It sounds as though her neediness, her degree of desperation, frightened him off, as was very likely to happen. Yes, this is indeed a fixation, and she should see a NON-church counsellor to help her come to her senses. She is misusing the scriptural readings, which were never meant to find a lover for a lonely girl
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