Our expert says:
I have no answer for your last question --- I find it hard to understand what you're doing there. The arrangement sounds excellent for HIM, with free sex, babysitting, household chores, cooking, cleaning, and child-minding, but what's there for you, beats me. Why are you staying with him ?
As Lee says, don't degrade yourself and his innocent kids, by treating them as he treats yours --- continue to set a good example. But if you think there is anything possible top retrieve in this relationship, insist that he join you in couples counselling or else leave, and let him discover how valuable you were to him.
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