Our expert says:
Neither. Don't even dream of going back to the sexually talented scum who abused you --- he will only abuse you again. If the other guy is nice in every other way, in a pleasant way discuss with him that you find this a sexual problem, and encourage him to see a relationship counsellor with you, and work on ways to improve the sex for the sake of both of you
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