Our expert says:
Why can't you move out ? It sounds as though you could afford it financially, and your mother has no legal right to control you in any way. You don't need to enable her to make her own misery contagious. Move out --- and piss her off, if that's what happens --- it is not your duty to make her happy or satisfied throughout her life, at a cost to your own happiness. If she's all that hostile, make all your arrangements, and get friends to help you with the physical aspects of the move ( like taking your things with you ) . And if she continues to interfere, get a court order forbidding her frm harassing you further.
Useful and thoughtful responses all round. If she is so intent, though, on dictating to you at 19, how do we know she will relent at 21 and allow you freedom then ?
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