Our expert says:
Tell your son and his girlfriend to sort out their own lives and to stop sponging off youj every time they create problems for yourself--- they are not your responsibility. And tell your boyfriend to move out and look after himself, too. And now enter a phase of sorting out your financial problems and looking after YOURSELF. And change the door locks, so none of these freeloaders can get back in. Loneliness would be far more pleasant than being alone with a sponger. DOn't think of "ending it all" in the sense of ending yourself --- end them, end their stays with you. If either insist on returning, get the police to remove them, and get a court order forbidding any of them from bothering you again.
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