Our expert says:
Of course it was devastating, and espcially offensive because he chose to continue the affair even after you knew about it. And how DARE he have argued with you that he couldn't leave hsi mistress "because he had feelings for her" - why didn't he have far more feelings for you ?
And of course she was NOT "a good person" - a good person does not choose to have and keep up, an adulterous relationship with aother woman's husband ! It sounds as though he, the toad, refused to take any responsibility whatever for his deliberate irresponsibility and cruelty.
And he didn't become HIV positive all on his own - he MUST have been having other affairs at that time, too. And he didn't care about whether you or the child became HIV positive because of him.
I suspect he is now modifying his behaviour because his friends know and women who are negative don't want to have sex with him, and because he knws he is likely to become seriously ill, and none of those mistresses would stay to look after him when he needs it, and he is assuming that you will.
I see no reason why you owe him any such thing, or why you shouldn't leave him and look after yourself and the child. You can still go to court and have a maintenance order reqire him to pay towards the child's needs.
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