Our expert says:
Either there is something for you in this relationship which you think is worth saving, and this guy is sorry enough to want to save it - then you insist that he join you in couples counselling ( eg through FAMSA ) as soon as you can arrange the first appointment, and work together to try to sort this all out ;
or if you have decided there is nothing for you worth saving, and you want OUT - then consult a lawyer and get advice on the best way to go about getting a divorce.
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