Our expert says:
Sounds like a obsessive personality, perhaps ? Even a degree of Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder - in which one's own personal view of order and how things MUST be, grows out of proportion, and causes one to feel disturbed when things are not done or placed "right". It's a matter of degree, of getting it into proportion, of finding a more comfortable place for everyone, somewhere between utter rigidity and utter chaos.
CBT can help a good deal, possibly, if it is severe enough, some meds as well.
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