Our expert says:
Good idea. Have you checked out our Divorce Support Forum . Expert elsewhere in H24 ? Or
SADSA | The South African Divorce Support Association ? We have a story featured on the front page today about how the squabbling of divorce can harm kids.
It is wicked how some divorcees sem to shape their lives around revenge and hurting their ex, rather than (a) moving on with their own lives, and (b) avoding the damage this causes to the kids. I dont handle these legal issues, but I understand that SA law has in some ways moved a bit more in the direction of recognizing the father's rights expecially access to his kids. Its probably wise that they disconnected issues of acces and maintenance, but both of these should be decided both fairly and with concern for the best interests of the children.
Maybe the law should be more ready to recognize the vindictive and abusive Ex.
Do heck out our other forum, and DASA --- and let me know what you think of SADSA as a possible source of help on these issues.
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