Our expert says:
It will be impossible for you to help him get over his alcoholism on your own. At most, you could support and encourage him if he went to see a proper rehab psychiatrist and worked through a proper rehab progam and follow-up, perhaps including AA.
The way you have been looking after him makes it easier for him to remain alcoholic. You were right to reject him and evict him. COnsider getting a court order forbidding him to come within x metres of you or from harrassing you in any way.
Stop blaming yourself for responding understandably when faced with severe provocation from someone behaving REALLY badly.
Forgive yourself and move on - and if you find this hard to do, see a counsellor to help you put this kid behind you
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