Our expert says:
Long-distance relatioonships are often difficult. But I wonder how much of a REAL relationship this was, compared to what you hoped it was and what you hoped it might become.
It sounds as though the relationship was over, for him, quite a time ago, but that you have been reluctant to let go of it.
You worry, rightly, about spoiling his marriage - and what about your own ? You are not really committed to your own marriage because of always looking over your shoulder at something that never was, but which you wish might have been
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