Our expert says:
I'm really reluctant to have the forum focus on work relationships --- and usually the answer to such queries is pretty obvious. Close and sexual relationships with people at work are usually, for several reasons a bad idea. ESPECIALLY between sdenior and junior staff.
You have a bf --- how does he come to be away "indefinitely " --- is that for days, months or years ? Surely you made some sort of agreement with him ebfore he left, as to whether you were expected to remain devoted tohim, or whether that relationship was ended or suspended.
But though you're in a relationship, and so is this other guy, you still feel tempted to mess things up with him ? What on earth makes you think it'd be a good idea to get close to him ? How much misery that could cause all round !
And by the way you CAN stop thinking aboutn him, though you may not want to. You don't need to forget him, just forget that you ever had the eally bad idea of flirting with him
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