Our expert says:
Surely you're right to want to be open and honest with his parents, and you need to wodner why he doesn't want that. You're being reasonable. he is treating the existence of your children, a vitally important part of you, as if it were a dirty secret that would "spoil" his mother's birthday ? You can tell him that if he plans to tell his mom after her birthday, you'll wait until then to meet them
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