Our expert says:
Well, from the sound of it, she may be in love with the guy she thought he was, rather than the rotten guy he actually is, so she's lucky to be rid of him, even if she doesn't emotionally recognise that yet.
If there is a realistic reason to blieve she may consider suicide or some other drastic action, then this is beyond your capacity to help directly, and you should persuade her to go to casualty or otherwise see a shrink as an emergency. Lifeline can advise on this, too. But such a rotten guy is no worth any woman getting so upset about. Her own nasty attempts at revenge are morally wrong as well as doomed to fail. They will not bring him back, but, rather, will scae him away, as well as potentially getting her herself into serious trouble.
She must focus on seeing him for what he is ( undesirable ) rather than insisting on the fantast of what she thought he was
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