Our expert says:
CF, the advice is easy. Even if you undertook 30 years of study in psychiatry, psychology, social work, sociology, etc., and traind with the world's greatest experts ; and even if everyone begged you to help them and promised truthfully that they would follow every scrap of advice you gve them absolutely to the letter --- you could not solve everybody's problems. And even if you could, many of them wouldn't want you to do so.
What you describe could be an obsessive-compulsive personality disorder, or an OCD, in which you try to control everything for fear that something ghastly will happen if you don't do so. See a psychiatrist for an assessment and advice --- if OCD, some medications can ehlp a lot, of the OC personality disorder, counselling, similarly, can be most helpful
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