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Posted by: CONTROL FREAK | 2004/02/04

I NEED TO BE IN CONTROL

I TRY SO HARD NOT TO TRY AND TAKE CONTROL OF EVERY SITUATION, BUT MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY TELL ME THAT SOMETIMES I AM A CONTROL FREAK. CAN YOU GIVE ME SOME ADVISE IN REALISING THAT I CANNOT SOLVE EVERYONES PROBLEMS. SO THAT I CAN LEARN TO STAND BACK AND SHUT UP SO AS NOT TO OFFEND. I AM CONVINCED THAT THIS IS AN ILLNESS, BECAUSE WHEN I AM NOT IN CONTROL OF A SITUATION I CAN ALMOST FEEL A PANIC ATTACK COMING ON. I FEEL I AM ONLY TRYING TO HELP. BUT IN FACT I THINK ITS ME THAT NEEDS THE HELP.

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CF, the advice is easy. Even if you undertook 30 years of study in psychiatry, psychology, social work, sociology, etc., and traind with the world's greatest experts ; and even if everyone begged you to help them and promised truthfully that they would follow every scrap of advice you gve them absolutely to the letter --- you could not solve everybody's problems. And even if you could, many of them wouldn't want you to do so.
What you describe could be an obsessive-compulsive personality disorder, or an OCD, in which you try to control everything for fear that something ghastly will happen if you don't do so. See a psychiatrist for an assessment and advice --- if OCD, some medications can ehlp a lot, of the OC personality disorder, counselling, similarly, can be most helpful

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