Our expert says:
Dont feel ashamed --- we all lurch into situations we can't handle, even the most capable of us ( and I'm not one of those !).
Sounds like this guy was a poor choice of partner for any sort of relationship. And you know beyond doubt that his promises are worthless --- and why indeed should he change the habits of a lifetime if he ca have his cake AND eat it ? Ignore his begging. If he is even slightly serious about becoming more honest, at least get him to join you in marriage / relationship counselling.
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