Our expert says:
WHY, why, why would you stay for 7 years with a man who keeps cheating on you ? The best predictor of how a person will behave ion the future is how they behaved in the past. it sounds as though he is stringing you along for what he can get out of this, and one doubts whether he actually intends to marry you, or anyone. Surely you deserve someone far, far, better than him ? It hurts because you are breaking a bad habit, like giving up smoking. You will get over it, and counselling might help to do this more efficiently.
And Lee --- NEVER post a fresh question as a response to someon else's question --- it'll get overlooked and messes up the thread of responses. I have no answer for it, but re-post your question afresh, and lets see if anyone else can advise.
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