Our expert says:
Many factors can contribute to a low sex drive or lwered pleasure in sex, and these could include depression / PND, and non consensual early experience and abuse ( though it can also have the opposite response, with perhaps even more unfortunate results ).
Hypnotherapy won't help ( warning, a cook who is a hypnosis fanatic, calling himself Homeoepsych, is likely to leap in here and assure you that it will ). |Unlocking" any memories is NOT needed at all, and the atempt to do so produces not only unreliable memories, but can very easily produce false memories.
BUT proper counselling from a non-hypnotic counsellor, perhaps of the Cognitive-Behaviour Therapy format (CBT ) could indeed help you to enjoy sex more and to rediscover your libido. Its unfortunate that your bhusband fails to help with the housework and especially the upbringing of the children. I would understand if this made you feel angry and resentful and less interested in sex. And your very reasonable expectation that he should be a father to your children and a husband to you, is even more important than sex. WOuld he agree ( especially if he saw it as a way to "fix" you !) to join you in marriage counselling, eg through FAMSA ?
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