Our expert says:
You are both married. See marriage counsellor ( separately, of course ) and sort out whatever isn't working in your different marriages, and if that is impossible to achieve, divorce. For both of you to cheat on blameless spouses is seedy.
Maybe she is being genuinely helpful in some ways - but she is also interfering in our marriage and may be encouraging a form of infidelity.
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