Our expert says:
Ask him to join you in mariage counselling because YOU need and want help, and need his help to ensure this help you need is successful - don't make it easy for him to refuse or to resist it because he doesn;t want to admit playing any part in the problems you face - let those emerge within the counselling.
If he still refuses and continues to misunderstand and deal badly with your kids, make it clear that is a deal-breaker and you will move back to your family, separated, and consult a lawyer.
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