Our expert says:
Discuss this with your husband, who ought to be the primary person discussing this with his mom, including explaining to her that if she doesn't like you or your cooking or how you run YOUR home, she doesn't have to visit, and if she does, she should be polite and appreciative and stop being so critical. And that she is there only as your guest, and is never the boss woman in your home.
And tell him that as he had no interest in or support for your business when you were starting up, he must not interfere now, and if and when you might need his help, THEN you will ask him. And remind him to remind her, that you have been supporting and assiting her financially, and not your own family.
I entirely understand your feelings about this . And if he doesn't like it, maybe suggest marriage counselling as the only other alternative ?
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