Our expert says:
There can be wisdom in the old policy of Forgive but don't forget, ( i.e. don't drop vigilance ) --- and if you both work hard in proper skilled therapy ( preferably NOT from a church source, but with someone properly trained and qualified ) things could work out. In the course of therapy / counselling you will have a better chance of discovering if he is being sincere or opportunistic. Good luck with the important work that lies ahead for both of you
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