Our expert says:
SOunds like you may have trapped yourself in unrealistic expectations of your Ex returning. And, like someone driving down the road while looking only in the rear-view mirror, you are missing out on all you could see if you looked forward. You may have missed too many opportunities to be happier with someone else, by waiting for the ex to return. See a counsellor, if necessary, to recognize that he has someone else now, and is very unlikely to want to come back to you - and that you do not need him for you to be happy.
Do not think of harming yourself, as you don't deserve such punishment, from yourself or from anyone else. DO see a shrink or counsellor to learn to free yourself from thie depression and to find the other sources of happiness you have been ignoring.
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