Our expert says:
I understand your feeling a bit gloomy after a disappointing birthday. Sounds like you could be the sort of husband most woman would really like to find, and as i your wife is being unappreciative and non-participant in all the chores as well as the enjoyments of the home. Talk to her. Why is she finding this job so overwhelmingly tiring ? Most of us are tired after work, but not to the extent she seems to be, and you still manage to do so much more. Are there problems at work she should be dealing with differently ? Is she physically unwell, or maybe Depressed ? If she is, she needs a proper medical / psychological assessment and treatment. If not, and she is merely disinterested, then she should move out and run her own life, rather than leaving all the work and responsibilities to you.
Maybe counselling for both of you should be an option.
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