Our expert says:
You know what you're doing wrong, so why don't you stop doing it ? You know he wont marry you ( probably an excellen thing, as he is abusive ) and that he is just using you. Apparently his family has no objection to that.
So you drive him around ( and who pays for his gym ? ) But you say he works, so why does he expect you to be his unpaid servant ?
Why be scared that he might go back to his own room ? That's be one of the very best things that could happen to you !
If you've wasted 3 years on this slob, when decide to waste no more - wasting more time on him is the biggest waste of all.
Please see a personal counsellor, to get more assertiveness, and more self-esteem, so as to stop being a pushover to allow someone like this to sponge off you.
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