Our expert says:
Maybe you never had a figure acceptable TO YOU. I very much doubt that other people felt the same way as you did. The problem, surely, lies in your lack of self-esteem and self-confidence - with this set of negative ( and inaccurate )assumptions about yourself, you would never feel content with how you look.
And i8t is quite common that people who feel out of control of important aspects of their lives ( such as their appearance ) seek to over-control other and irrelevant aspects of their lives.
Of course you can learn to love yourself ( which will make you far more loveable to others ) - see a psychologist for a full assessment and probably CBT ( Cognitive-Behaviour Therapy ) as a way to changing your set of negative and unhelpful assumptions about yourself.
And as Black Sister says, black is as beautiful as any other shade, as you'll realize once you lose your self-prejudice.
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