Our expert says:
I can't help wondering what that "stuff" was, as it could be very relevant here. I wonder whether he therapy he had, which helped with his anger problems, is complete or needs any more work. The couples sessions seem to have been helpful but again --- isn't there more to be done there ? And, depending on whether you are reacting to the past or the present, maybe some counselling for you would help you to get clear whether or not there is a significant problem remaining between you, and if so, how best to deal with it. Again, much may depend on that the mysterious "stuff" is or was.
Bitter should insist on marriage counselling and perhaps anti-abuse counselling for her spouse, as a condition for staying with him, rather than tolerate further abuse.
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