Our expert says:
Maintaining a good relationship and raising a good child isn't boring - its highly skilled and worthwhile. If you go out and just leave and ignore the child, that would be bad and your man would have good reason to complain. If you went out occasionally, with responsible friends, and having arranged it with him, maybe have them round to visit you and get to know him, that might work, but you'd need to discuss this with him, obviously. Can someone else, maybe in his or your family, babysit so you can BOTh go out together occasionally ?
And as Kedi wisely says, who cares what you THINK other people your age may be doing ? Many of them are being foolish, getting into trouble, or just being miswerable without telling you. They're not worth imitating.
Why not embrace your role as a mother, and get to know other mothers of similar age children, and meet with them during the day or weekends ?
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