Our expert says:
If she is still 16, and you and your sister are the legal guardians, your wishes probably count most ; the difficulty would be that she is in Durban and you are not. Obviously the idea of moving in with an older bf is daft, Maybe someone ought tom mention to him that sex with an underage girl could be considered statutory rape.
Mike may be right about how critical may be the way in which she is approached and the nature of any discussions with her, taking her own ideas into account.
Would she agree to postpone any such move ( there is nothign whatever urgent about it from any realistic point of view ) until after the Christmas holidays, so that you and your sister can have the time to visit and talk it over with her meet her bf, and see what can be sorted out ?
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