Our expert says:
Well, this is an unusual question, and it'll be interesting to see what our other readers have to say here. I suppose it all depends on how you choose to feel about it, and as you head your question in capital letters "I CANNOT ACCEPT IT!!!!" I guess you have already decided that this is a problem for you.
In previous centuries it wasn't unusual for families to give the same name to several of their living children, expecting that with high infant mortality rates, only one of their "Williams" or "Sarahs" would make it to adulthood. It has, though, become a most unusual practice these days.
I understand that he likes the name, but surely he understands that for a very obvious reason, caused by him, it's upsetting for you to contemplate having the same name for your child as he already gave to an illegitimate "love-child". Does he really only have one favourite name he loves ?
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