Our expert says:
Sorry to hear of this, C. I hope the people at the Maintenance COurt and Family Advocate are helping you to ensure that this guy pays the maintenance he is required to do. This new relationship does not sound as though it will be good for you or your son, and it sounds as though the guy really needs some counselling for himself, to sort out his neediness and over-controlling tendencies. There's nothing wrong with you or your appearance, but you may be, in one way or another, unwittingly selecting needy and difficult men. You have no need to remain alone all your life, but when the dust settles from these present problems, see a personal counsellor and strengthen yourself to be able to form the sort of comforting relationship you deserve.
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