Our expert says:
Sorry to hear of your sadness, but if a guy is that possessive and controlling, you're actually well rid of him. After his fit of jealousy, how dare he be so darn condascending about "thinking" about whether to forgive you for what he caused ? it sounds as though he has a whole big pile of emotional baggage he isn't dealing with, and a miserable relaionship with him isn't necessaril a good thing for the child. If you decide to part, this might be psychologically healthier for both of you, but consult a lawyer to ensure that he continues to have to pay proper maintenance for the child, and that there isn't room for quarrels about access. Recover your other friendships and family.
keep your dignity,don't beg, and let him take responsibility for his choices and actions.
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