Our expert says:
I hear about rather a lot of "born-again Christians" who have behaved badly --- uch rebirth really doesn't seem to predict excellent behaviour in everyone. When such a person behaves badly, it might suggest, indeed, that they could be more hypocritical than most. Clearly, he has NOT changed at all.
A man who has had 5 children by 5 women, and has left them all, is a lousy bet as a husband, and surely you realized how likely it was that he would eventually cheat you, too ? A faithful man, someone even capable of fidelity could just not do what he had already done when you met him.
I don't understand why you think you ought to trust such a man ? Would you trust a serial killer as a baby-sitter ? It sounds as though he says things to get what he wants, without feeling the need to do or feel what he says. And from your description, he doesn't take responsibility for his choices and actions, which is always a bad sign.
See a personal counsellor and work for yourself, on your self-esteem and self-confidence, and towards deciding what's best for YOU.
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