Our expert says:
As you've learned, one cannot usefully undertake risks based on twin assumptions that "it can't happen to me" --- as you know know, it can. But when you say how sad you felt when the monthly pregnancy test came back negative, this means you really WANTED to bcome pregnant. You don't mention your ages, but neither of you sound emotionally mature enough for a serious sexcual relationship, let alone to raise a child. It sounds as thopugh your parents and family severely let you down, and did not show you how happy families can actually work.
You and your bf should probably arrange as oon as possible to see a counsellor and work through your feelins and options. He cannot escape his responsibilities, and the maintenance court would ensure that he HAS to pay monthly maintenance amounts to provide for the child, which HAS to be a priority more important than extending his mother's house.
But urgently get counselling, so you can make a wiser and informed decision rather than an impulsive one not properly thought through --- that's how this problem arose in the first place.
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