Our expert says:
Some people, including perhaps this awful woman's husband, are skilled at denial and just not seeing what is happening if it is bad news. If you and your husband have a good relationship and see her in the same way, why not jointly confront her calmly and just tell her to mlay off, that neither of you appreciate her slutty behaviour nor her aiming at him, and that you will break off all contact with her unless she withdraws her tentacles permanently.
It doesn't matter whose "fault" these things are --- all sorts of nasty things can happen while people are busy arguing about "fault". If her behaviour is unacceptable --- tell her. If both of you find it unacceptable ---tell her together.
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