Our expert says:
I don't know about hate, here, but in such situations its not uncommon for the child to see the gf as trying to take her dad away from her, or to replace her mom. I don't understand why your husband see her so much less than you do, but it is his job to talk this through with her, and make it clear how she needs to behave. Loving you is not compulsory ( and may indeed come with time ), but politeness is required. Maybe she doesn't udnerstand why she sees so little of him, and is blaming you for that ?
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