Our expert says:
He can't judge whether you give the children "too much" attention compared to him --- there are no absolute measures of such things --- but he is actually saying that it feels to him as though they are getting much more attention than him --- and that he feels he needs more attention. He's unlikely to be talking to anyone else. But why not approach him calmly, and say that you get the feeling he's not as happy in the marriage as he could be, and maybe you're not so happy either --- and ask him to join you in seeing a marriage counsellor together ?
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