Our expert says:
Of course you're not crazy, but if as a result of childhood experiences you are unduly sensitive to being left alone ( the amount of time he is away doesn't sound HIGHLY excessive ) and worried that he won't be able to resist the temptations of exotic places, this may cause probl;ems that are not otherwise inescapable. From the sound of it he ought to be more sensitive to your needs. If he absolutely HAS to be away at times like your birthday, he could still make it up to you imaginatively when he IS here. Continue to work on these issues with the marriage counsellor, and with your husband when available. You can work on your own issues, including self-esteem and self-confidence with the counsellor when he is not around, and on the relationship issues when he is around
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