Our expert says:
Identifying what is normal or not when it comes to sexuality is not easily done as there is huge variation. What we normally do consider though is whether certain behaviours/scenarios cause distress for one or both of the partners. Whilst you may have been comfortable to be sexual with anothr woman, this does not mean that he is comfortable to be sexual with another man. I always recommend that if there is any pressure; it may breed resentment and I always advise against that. If your husband is apprehensive then maybe for now you could keep your fanstasy as just that. Remember also that this could change the dynamics with your friend...
Claire - SASHA
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