Our expert says:
There seem to have been rather a lot of messages on this particular topic, lately. I"m certain that your undoubted attractiveness is not a factor in this. If he only managed 11 times in the first year, either there is something ( psychological or physical ) reducing his normal libido ( sex drive ) or he has a rather low libido naturally. Life coaching is rubbish, with no adequate training for a nebulous job and a non-existent "profession", and no life coach would be capable of recognizing or helping with any significant sexual or emotional problem. The pair of you would do FAR, far better to see a good local marriage counsellor from FAMSA, to work on these issues ; and no competent properly trained counsellor could see you for more than 1 or 2 sessions without discovering this problem of low libido and its impact on you.
Of course he MIGHt be gay, as its quite a common state, but there are other more likely reasons for a low libido, most of which can be remedied.
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