Our expert says:
What marriage ? Your husband thinks so little of you and the "marriage" that he not only chooses to have a mistress and flaunt her, but to allow her to take over some of your role as mother to your children ?
Consult a lawyer to protect your rights and those of the children. If he wont talk to you about the problems he seems to be creating, he may have to talk with your lawyer, or land up in more expensive legal problems.
On what basis is this woman telling you that you are unable to take proper care of your children ? Is there any truth in this ? Have there been any times when your personal problems or other reasons have rendered you unable to take proper care of them ? If that were the case, then Child Welfare authorities should have been consulted by your husband, rather than giving the task to his mistress.
BUt don't just give up, or it will appear as though you are agreeing with them that you are unable to be an effective mother. You should be able to divorce the rat, keep the children, and have a court require him to pay enough maintenance to cover all your expenses in caring for the children until they are grown up. That may interfere with his "entertaining the mistress" budget.
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