Our expert says:
It is very difficult to assess the situation fully as there are so many possibilities here. What is clear, however, is that you are in distress about this needs to be addressed. I would encourage you and your husband to see a sex therapist in order to identify where the problems lie and to assist you to plan the way to address these. If you are not sure where to access a sex therapist, you could contact your GP, your local FAMSA branch, or you could find one via the SASHA helpline (0860 100 262 - leave a message and you will be called back)
Claire - SASHA
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