Our expert says:
It's nver an addiction, it's a behaviopur, perhaps some bad habits, but not an addiction ( calling it an addiction is a favourite ploy of guys who behave badly and want to avoid taking personal responsibility for the choices they make. Some people become much more demanding sexually when they are under stress for some other reason, and they're using sex as a handy form of stress relief ( which may not be entirely considerate of their partner ).
Now, on the other hand, as in your situation, some people who were abused as children may find that effects of that experience return to them later in life, maybe when some aspects of a situation echo what originally happened. And ther are many possible reasons both for increased and for decreased libido.
SOme thoughts --- DON'T try to deal with these things from your childhood entirely on your own, but see a good common-sense, preferably CBT-oriented shrink for therapy / counselling to deal with these matters effectively and efficiently. And why not also get into marriage counselling with your husband so you can each understand the other rather better, and sort things out as your own therapy progresses ?
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