Our expert says:
If he blames you and everyone but himself, then it is much more likely to happen again. If he isn't man enough to take responsibility for his free choices and actions, then he won't be able to be faithful to anyone. He will not manage this unless he is prepared to talk about it, with you, and with a marriage counsellor. And insist that there will be no sex until he has been thoroughly screened for HIV and other STD, and has a clean bill of health from the doc. Grieving is hard work, but does not include cheating your spouse or promiscuous and high-risk sex. Is it esential that your ( and his ) family don't find out ? Sounds like he's upset that you found out, rather than for what he was doing.
You have many good reasons for being upset. Roaccutane can, though, cause serious depression, and this should be checked for, and deaolt with if it does arise. Stop assuming that you DID something to send him after other people --- he was fully capable of deciding on that on his own.
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