Our expert says:
Volcano emphasizes a crucial point --- telling the Other Woman's husband guarantees that that poor man is as hurt and haunted as you are now, punishing him, and doesn't mean that she will necessarily be greatly bothered or learn from the experience. You do need to continue with what you are doing, working towards being able to make a wise decision for your own benefit, about your own life --- and your happiness must not be made dependent on her becoming unhappy. Yes, you will need, in the course of counselling, to decide about whether to continue within your marriage --- but telling the other wronged spouse will never be a cause of increased happiness for you, for him, for their children, or for anyone who deserves it.
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