Our expert says:
OK sounds right - GET marriage counselling. Any number of groups can provide it, including FAMSA. Its never fair for anyone to resent relatonships you had BEFORE they met you, though fair enough to be worried if something went wrong after the meeting. He will not be allowed, legally, to take the child away ( specially not on the grounds of your afairs before mariage ) ; and if he does continue to threaten and even hit you, he can be charged with spousal abuse, and even a court order requiring HIM to move out and not to approach you or the child.
How can he logically think there is so much wrong ( even if he blames it on you ) and yet not fel there's any need for counselling ? Sounds like he has VERY low self-esteem, and fears what may be revealed in the counselling sessions.
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