Our expert says:
Its hard to say whether you are too demanding, withou being clear about what you demand, and under what circumstances, but you don't sound unreasonable at all. Why not persuade him to join you in proper marriage counselling, to see how far you can both sort this out, for the sake of both of you, as well as the children.
And affair NEVER ever solves anything and only makes any bad situation worse --- an d they're exhausting, too --- you don't have the time or energy for that !
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